It does not matter who you are there is some part of your body that you rather give back to your parents than keep. For me, its my tummy. I know I've heard some weird ones before like eyebrows, finger nails and once I even heard someone complain about the skin on their elbows. This need to criticize who we are is a socially constructed problem that we will forever have to face. However, when it comes to bodies what makes us attractive?
When it comes to women we look towards the skinny, well endowed women of the time that are plastered and plastic all over the place. When did this change and why? Before a certain point in time women who had more meat were seen as more beautiful due to the fact that they could afford to eat more. We didn't have this instant thought of anyone being obese. That word wasn't even in our vocabulary. Yes, times have changed, fast food has become dominant and there are people who need to put down the fries and pick up the salad but! anyone who doesn't look like a pencil is not instantly fat.
I came across this book called, Fat History: Bodies and Beauty in the Modern West written by Peter Stearns. He has decided that the shift in wanting plump women to thin was in the twenty years of 1890 to 1910. In the article that was talking about this book there was a collection of images of exotic dancers that were at the beginning of this time shift. Exotic dancer meaning "
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So these women were found gorgeous, desirable and sexy. Want to know what they looked like?
My mother would say that they have baby-bearing hips.
I remember being told that I had them when I was younger and was completely ashamed at that and honestly, I still am. I take it as an insult but why is that?
So I went searching and came across this article from the Telegraph that found articles that looked into the question of what shape was desired. The thing is, breasts, waist and thighs are the body parts that men look at the most. This is where the beauty aspect comes from.
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The article expresses that breast size was not what was wanted. The round shape was what turned guys on, or made them see them as beautiful. Round=Young, healthy, and ready to have babies. Al Green's 'Let's get it on' played in my head as a read this. Waists were all described over the ages and in different cultures as desired as small. Again, this is because they were healthy. The need for men to want to pass their genes on to healthy bouncing babies is what makes this figure even more desirable.
"An hourglass shape in women is associated with relatively high levels of the hormone oestrogen."
"The author William Shenstone (1714–1763) put it more poetically: "Health is beauty, and the most perfect health is the most perfect beauty.""
-By Roger Highfield Science Editor < Here is the link.
This doesn't answer my question in the least. So healthy women, who look as if they are capable of having healthy babies is what has been seen as beautiful for ages all over the world. HEALTHY! If you take care of yourself you should be seen as beautiful. The idea that we have to starve ourselves, workout every and still wear spanks is not what we should see as gorgeous. You are beautiful because you are taking care of yourself. From skin, to hair, to your body. Who cares if you have a little stomach?
I remember walking through museums and art galleries and seeing Aphrodite for the first time. The goddess of beauty and how she was portrayed.
In every single image she has a little tummy, larger thighs and different sizes of breasts in all different periods and cultures. She was still seen as beautiful because she was healthy. She is the god of freaking beauty. SO! I went on to look at the body ratio that most sculptures have to compare.
The Golden ratio.
Then I decided to keep that for my next post. Numbers usually hate me until now.
You will find out why next time!
However,the next time you look in the mirror just smile and say," Daaaaaaaang! I look healthy today." Then walk out that door and show off what your Momma gave ya because you are beautiful.
I have been described as having "baby bearing hips" as well, and I used to hate it, but now that I've gotten older (and wiser) I've started to love all my curves, they're what make me ME. And I think curves are sexy. The pictures of the exotic dancers are very interesting! I get so tired of all the altered pics of celebs in all the magazines. I wish we could all just be happy with the body we were born with. THUMBS UP! I love your blog! I look forward to reading more!
ReplyDeleteYa! you go girl! As a thicker-built, scandanavian girl I am inspired but what you're writing. I am constantly picking at myself over my tummy area, and it wasn't until recently that I finally started to just except it, and except me. You have really great material here! Keep it up!
ReplyDeletei love this post , it is true women are beautiful no matter their size. i know there are times i want to give back my tummy and thighs, but i have come to realize over the years that i am who i am and really does being like everyone else even matter? i love how you are bringing this to light, it's about time someone does
ReplyDeleteAh, I like this post. I've heard the whole 'women used to be larger and beautiful', but the pictures drove it home like never before. And thanks for thinking of the Aphrodite analysis; that was a good idea. I also like how you give a sneak preview of your next post to keep people reading. Thanks for posting!
ReplyDeleteThis was such an awesome post, I could not agree more with the whole healthy women are the most beautiful ones. I personally think that it is sad that our society makes it seem like you have to be a size 0 to have a nice body. When I was reading this I could not help but thinking about the recent Victoria Secret run way show and how tiny those models are. That is what our younger generation is looking up to as beauty......
ReplyDeleteI love how you incorporate the images of women throughout the various time periods you discussed. It really adds to the blog entry because you are showing us the women that are beautiful despite the media. I appreciate the fact that you chose to tackle such a difficult subject. And Amanda is right. Why should the only role models be the thin Victoria Secret models? I wish the media represented real women and not the ones who starve themselves. Lovely post!
ReplyDeleteI lost it when you said you heard the song "Let's get it on". Have you heard or noticed how unhealthy the idea of beauty is getting in terms of models? They are definetly a representation of what the world deems as beautiful. Today a size six is considered a plus size model! If I was a size six there is no way I would ever consider myself plus size! It sort of makes me wonder what people are thinking. It also makes me dislike Tyra Banks who lashes out at models who starve themselves when she seems perfectly comfortable with excepting the plus size model rule. She's never said anything against it, and on her own show she congradulates the one or two size six models for being "a plus size woman" who "has what it takes" to be an inspiration! (I know I've said it before, but seriously what makes a size six woman a plus size girl!
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